Why do we have to work so hard in life? Sometimes, the smallest things seem so hard and for others is so easy!?
College, Careers, Relationships,Marriage, Children, Friendships, Holidays, Finances, Retirement. Sometimes, I feel like I am damned if I do and dammed if I don't.
Public Comments
- When something looks easy when done another person, they have practiced for a long time to make it appear easy. Getting started is not so easy in a lot scenarios.
- I know what you mean. Life used to be simple. These days its very complicated. It seems like theres no time to just enjoy life. Too many crucial decisions have to be made & everything is rush rush do this do that.....
- I understand exactly how you feel. All throughout my life, things that came so easily to others have always been a private battle for me. It really is frustrating, but you cannot let your anger and confusion run away with your well being. Did it ever occur to you that people like you are special? You work twice as hard for things, and you may receive the same career, retirement, finance, etc. However, the reward should be twice as good for you because you can pat yourself on the back for putting so much effort into something, as the others cannot. They will never receive that self satisfying feeling afterwards, as things consistently come good to them. What fun is that? Perhaps it is because they don't put in the effort or maybe your mind is getting the impression that it's easy for them but really, it's just as hard. Whatever the case may be, you must accept this and praise yourself for sticking it out. Those people will one day have to work hard for something in their life, and it won't come as easily to them. Best of luck. Don't let it kill you inside.
